Some people

Half your life is wasted fighting the demons and dealing with the existentialist crisis. And amidst all this there are some people who make your even more difficult who live in this denial that the world that we live in is actually a fantasy and only good things happen to everybody else except them. They are some jinxed creatures to whom only bad things happen and the entire world except them is responsible. Now tell me, what are bad things? I mean if you can deal with a crisis, it's fine right. Happiness is something you create out of the situations provided to you. So it doesn't matter if good or bad things happen. And take charge and try to change things around to suit yourself than sulking and whining over these unimportant things.
Now if you are to attend a function, you need to prepare as a lady. Especially if you are to drape a saree. If you know to manage it yourself then it's well and good. But if you aren't, then either fix an appointment with the beautician or decide on a person who can do it. You do nothing of this sort and then on the D-Day, you are all moody and irritated because no one helped you. I mean why should anyone? You help yourself dude or do something about it. People I tell you.... Aarrgghh. Well all this is irrelevant if you don't give a damn about how you look. That's actually the best solution. Now do these trivial things actually impact your life? Come on dude....It's just a saree and it doesn't matter even if it's a little here and there. It's not such a big deal. A day is well spent if you are in good company doing nice things which you can remember later and have a laugh about it.